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October 2010  

   Building Relationships, Families & Communities Free from Violence

Dear Emma , 

Earlier this month I had the distinct honor to accept proclamations from The City of Placerville and the El Dorado County Board of Supervisors declaring October as Domestic Violence Awareness month.  Not only are these recognitions important as they help raise awareness in the community but the message they send to our clients is vital.  When our clients read the proclamations posted in the lobby, they understand that they are not invisible and that our great community stands with them and supports them as they work to build lives free from violence.   For a particularly heartfelt experience, go to The Center's website and watch the music slideshow created for Domestic Violence Awareness Month.  It is powerful!

November also brings the General Election.  The sheriff's race is of particular interest since The Center interacts with the Sheriff's Department on a regular basis.  A few months back both candidates agreed to respond to questions about domestic violence and sexual assault for this edition of The Center Now.  Candidate D'Agostini provided responses and candidate Therkildsen did not. 

Finally, The Center's largest fundraising event of the year is just around the corner.  This year the 27th Annual Auction will take place Saturday, November 6th.  Our Auction committee has been incredibly successful in their quest for fantastic Auction items including wine country experiences, vacations to beautiful locales, as well as some impossible to find magnums and even double magnums of incredible wines from our region!  Be sure to join with us in celebrating the food and wine of El Dorado County.

Peace-

Matt Huckabay
Executive Director
(530)626-1450 or matth@thecenternow.org

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In This Issue
A Message from Your Sheriff's Candidate
October Volunteer News
27th Annual Auction Gala
Get To Know Your Center Staff!
Silver Lining Gift Club
A Message from Your Sheriff's Candidate

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The Center for Violence-Free Relationships often works with the El Dorado County Sheriff's Department in helping and advocating for its domestic violence and sexual assault clients. The election of a new Sheriff that understands domestic violence and sexual assault is essential for the hundreds of survivors in our county. We wanted to get know our candidates so we sent them a list of questions to answer. We got some great responses from Candidate John D'Agostini, but unfortunately were not able to get a response from Craig Therkildsen. So here are excerpts from some of John D'Agostini's responses.

 

Q).  What are the top three crimes in our county and what is your plan to address these problem areas?

A). "The three top crimes reported are, Larceny, Assault and Burglary. This is a common trend throughout law enforcement jurisdictions nationwide.  Included in the Assault crimes are DV investigations. Putting into practice my policy of "Total Policing" that has three main facets: Total enforcement on crime and criminals, Total Care for victims, witnesses and the community and Total Professionalism through training and leading by example will enable my office to enlist community support and involvement in addressing specific problems with a multifaceted, comprehensive strategy."

 

 

Q). Over the past 2-3 years it would appear that a significant number of the murders that have occurred in El Dorado County have involved some aspect of family and/or domestic violence.   Are you aware of and concerned about this rise in lethal family violence and what could you, as the Sheriff, do to address this issue?

A). "I am aware of and concerned about the domestic violence murder trend in El Dorado County and across our nation.  In order to address the issue, I believe that we must work in partnership with domestic violence advocacy agencies, the District Attorney's Office, the Superior Court, County Probation, Child Protective Services, and the Sheriff's Office.  Working with those agencies, I believe we should discuss the possibility of forming a team who could examine domestic violence murders and make suggestions on how to prevent those crimes from happening in the future."

"As part of my top to bottom review of Sheriff's Office policy and procedures, we will ask two primary questions - is our policy and response adequate and can we improve our service to the community?  I believe that there is always room for improvement."

 

Q). During the past year and a half, law enforcement on the western slope has been absent from our local Domestic Violence Coordinating Council meetings.  What would you personally do to ensure that your agency employees participate in these collaborative meetings?

A). "Our Sheriff's Office must be involved in all proactive measures possible to reduce crime in El Dorado County.  Having representation from the Sheriff's Office at such council meetings is essential to this endeavor.  As your Sheriff, I will assign an investigative supervisor or manager to attend all coordinating council meetings." 

 

Q). What type of training would you support for local LE officers to receive on the subjects of domestic violence and sexual assault and what would you do to ensure that they received such training on a regular basis?

A). "Penal Code Section 13519 requires that law enforcement officers receive domestic violence training every two years...I strongly support additional training that can be provided within our budget constraints.  I am open to creative solutions.  One possible solution to increase domestic violence training would be to present short "roll call" domestic violence training sessions prior to the deputies going on shift.  This would reduce costs and keep our deputies up to date on domestic violence issues and improve our response..."

 

 

Q). From talking with local deputies over the last few years, it seems that some officers believe that the Placerville DA's office is not filing very many domestic violence cases given the number of DV arrests the officers are making. Please discuss any general concerns you might have regarding the DA's filing decisions in domestic violence cases. In your opinion, are the DV laws being appropriately enforced in our community?

A). "As your Sheriff, I will establish a healthy, transparent working relationship with the DA. I have every confidence in the District Attorney and his staff. 

 

We should remember that the standards of proof for a trial are very different from the standards for making an arrest.  The District Attorney bears the burden of proof and is required to prove their version of events beyond a reasonable doubt... An officer working on patrol must meet a lower standard of proof known as probable cause.  The facts they gather must be sufficient for a reasonable person to believe that a crime was committed by a particular person.  

 

Working more closely with the District Attorney, his Deputies and Investigators will help the wheels of justice move more rapidly, efficiently and keep the needs of victims/witnesses in the forefront while respecting the constitutional rights of everyone affected." 

 

Q.)What are some of the ways that you see The Center and EDSO working together to reduce Domestic Violence & Sexual Assault in our community?

A). "As part of my top to bottom review of Sheriff's Office policy and procedures, I will extend an invitation to the Center for Violence-free Relationships to review and discuss our domestic violence and sexual assault policies.  I want input from the stakeholders on what we are doing right and what we can do better.  Areas that will be reviewed are as follows:

·          What level of training our deputies have received

·          How deputies are held accountable (or not) for following our domestic violence policies

·          Who monitors how consistently or how well the domestic violence policy is followed

·          What are the consequences for failing to follow domestic violence policies or recognition for implementing them well

In the future I would like to see domestic violence training sessions provided to our staff by the Center for Violence-free Relationships."

 

October Volunteer News

 By Martha Borders, Volunteer Coordinator

We are so very proud to announce that Style Magazine declared The Center as the second most popular organization to volunteer with in El Dorado County.    Thank you for all your votes!   So, there is still time to call or email The Center to Volunteer through the 2011 year. 

We are winding our Fall 10 Training down to the last few sessions with a completion date of 10/28 - just in time for new certified graduates to serve clients throughout the Holiday Season.  We will be planning to rev up a recruitment for prospective volunteers through January for the commencement of a  late February training , our Winter 11 class.

 

If you want to get involved with The Center, think about volunteering. If you want to volunteer contact Martha Borders at (530)626-1450 or (916)939-6616 or email her at marthab@thecenternow.org

27th Annual Auction Gala
November 6th, 2010- Mercedes Benz of El Dorado Hills
This year's Annual Auction Gala, on November 6th, is not only supporting a good cause but it will be a fun event with live music, delicious food, and great auctions items.
 
This year we have some great items up for auction. There are white water rafting adventures from Pirate Rafting Co.; a 50 year old Congnax des Ribaud XO, Hommage au temps; a private tour and tasting at Vino Noceto Winary, and many other great items.

Auction wine Garden

Also this year we have some great sponsors, who take the time and the funds to support The Center for Violence-Free Relationships. This year some of our top sponsors are Mark Scangarella Painting, Inc.; Hansen McClain; Blue Shield of California, and El Dorado Savings Bank.


If you would like to become a sponsor, buy tickets, or donate an auction item please go to our website auction page by clicking here

Get to Know Your Center Staff!

Robert Williams,

 Program Assistant/ MAAP Facilitator

Robert Williams

"Greetings from Robert Williams, one of the men on staff here at the Center for Violence-Free Relationships.  Yes, men work here....as staff and as volunteers!  I became a volunteer in 2006 after being laid off from my job of 20+ years.  I liked the salary but did not like the work so when this layoff took place, I viewed it as an opportunity to give back to my community in a way that was also personally rewarding. 

 

After completing our intensive volunteer training, I had the time to devote to The Center during the days.  Since I have an interest in the legal process, I volunteered in our legal department following criminal cases for our clients and accompanying our clients to court hearings and mediations.  My initial reservation was whether I could be of any real help to our clients.  After a few times with clients, I learned that just a calming presence was of great benefit to someone navigating the maze that is our legal system. 

 

I am a firm believer that Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault are not limited to being a women's problem, but that they are human problems requiring the participation of both men and women if we are to reach any solution to these issues.  I also believe that, with regard to DV, perpetrators (both men & women) act out in destructive ways because it is their habit to do so....and habits can be changed.  To this end, my early volunteer work also included working in our Batterers Intervention Program which works on changing these destructive habits by giving options as to how to react to stressful situations in more constructive ways that can increase the chances of a positive resolution to the conflict.  That, combined with introducing the concept and practice of Non Violent Communication, has changed people who are open to making these changes.  Effective communication skills are key to keeping conflicts from escalating. 

 

As I move into my 3rd year as a full time staff member at The Center, my time is spent facilitating Batterers Intervention groups; helping to keep track of our donor, client, and volunteer statistics necessary to prove we're meeting our grant requirements; and working at the front desk in the office.  Some of our clients are surprised that a man is answering the phones and greeting people when they come into our office.  To me, this helps prove that it is absolutely necessary for men to be part of the solution to stopping DV and SA, and I am proud to be playing a small role to that end."
Silver Lining Gift Club 
 
The Center is offering a special membership program for you to make a difference in the lives of the those dealing with violence. 
 
Like so many of us, The Center certainly has felt the impact of these challenging economic times.  For many years, our family of supporters have been incredibly generous and we know how strong the desire is to continue to support us.  When times get tough and less money is available, the need for The Center's services increases. 
 
With this in mind, The Center has developed the Silver Lining Gift Club, as a way for you to continue your support with minimal impact to your budget.  
 
For just $25 a month (less than a dollar a day) you can provide a silver lining of hope to victims of domestic violence and sexual assault.  Your monthly contribution will help us to continue to provide safe shelter, food and vital needs for our clients and their children. 
 
Click on the Donate Now button and join today. Join today and save a life tomorrow! 
 
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The Center for Violence-free Relationships is dedicated to building healthy relationships, families and communities free from sexual assault and domestic violence through education, advocacy, and services in western El Dorado County. 
 
The Center is a nonprofit 501(c)3 organization.  All contributions are tax deductible and vital to continue our services.
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CENTER'S CALENDAR
   
October -Domestic Violence Awareness Month (DVAM)

October 12, 7 PM-
November 6 - 27th Annual Auction Gala

December  - Adopt-A-Family 

For more information on these events contact Emma Owens, Program Assistant. Call 530-626-1450 or 916-939-4464 ext 205 or email
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CENTER'S SUPPORT GROUPS  

Domestic Violence Support and Education Groups: Tuesdays 5:30-7:30 pm and Wednesdays 10:00 am - 12:00 pm - FREE, drop in

 
AMAC - Adults Molested As Children Support Group

CAP - Women's Changing Abusive Patterns

Peace First - Men's and Women's Workshops on Improving Relationships

MAAP - Men's Alternative to Abusive Patterns (English and Spanish)

 For more information on these groups call 530-626-1131 
or 916-939-6616
Placerville Town Hall Meeting The Centers' Domestic Violence Proclamation

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